In the online dating world, there are two universal “truths” that have been commonly accepted.
One, Asian women are the most desirable and receive the most responses across all ethnicities.
It’s easy to get trapped into thinking Asian American dating is all terrible when only focusing on the negatives, which is why it’s important to learn what goes into making a successful dating profile.
Search for a website that uses some sort of personality test to learn about your interests in order to suggest compatible matches, and stay active with messaging and responding to potential romantic partners.
This stereotype is not only offensive, but it perpetuates this mode of thinking that Asian women are good for flings rather than serious relationships.
The role of subservient woman seems to be tied exclusively to Asians, and their “exotic” status tends to turn them into hyper-sexualized beings among other ethnicities.Having the stereotype of being lousy lovers and boring computer nerds certainly does not help, nor does the Hollywood habit of casting white actors in Asian roles because they are seen as more bankable, which can sometimes be interpreted to mean “more desirable.” And when it comes to women of the same race, things don’t get any better.Asian women seem to favor dating white men, often buying into the same stereotypes listed above or thinking they will fall into the same patriarchal type of household they might have grown up in.Indeed, it has been found that a man who sends a message to a woman his own age has a 4% likelihood of receiving a response to that message, compared to 17.5% for a woman messaging a man her own age.
However, that number becomes even more dismal for Asian men.It can be difficult for an Asian man to break out of this mold society has stuffed him into, and many are never even given the chance.